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Would you raise your children like your parents raised you?

11.06.2025 23:33

Would you raise your children like your parents raised you?

Thankfully they’ve grown up very well and I’m extremely proud of them.

Hell fucking no. I was raised with no rules, guidance, or discipline. I am very lucky that I preferred reading over everything and bitched when I couldn’t do so.

I still struggle nowadays because I want to make sure my kids are safe and healthy, and I tend to overreact because I don’t want my kids growing up like I did.

Ok, so this is a question seeking an answer to clear up whatever gymnastics are in my head. I'm a moderately attractive guy, sincere heart, genuinely looking to love another, established. Why don't women that I'm attracted to, want me back?

My parents drank, smoked, and my father abused ma while she hit back, so they preferred to do that and treated me like a roommate.